Wabi Sabi Sex & Pleasure

Would you be surprised to discover that your grandparents had sex more often than you do?

Chances are it’s true.

For many couples, life just seems to get in the way of finding time for sex or even simple pleasures.   We’re a nation of busy, over-committed, stressed-out, sleep-deprived and just plain tired folks.

And, to make things harder on us, modern day society has conditioned us to look for and seek perfection in all areas of our lives, which leads to an ongoing state of frustration and dissatisfaction.

To allow for more joy and harmony in our lives, it’s time that we embrace the ancient Japanese art form known as Wabi Sabi.

Wabi Sabi honors all things old, weathered, worn, imperfect and impermanent by finding the beauty and perfection in the imperfections. For instance, if you had a large vase with a big crack down the middle of it, a Japanese art museum would put the vase on a pedestal and shine a light on the crack. Or, they might fill the crack with 24k gold! When we practice Wabi Sabi Love we can begin to appreciate our own and everyone else’s imperfection.


There is now ample research proving that pleasure (and sex) not only reduces stress, it also improves our health, overall wellbeing and longevity.  This probably isn’t surprising and when was the last time you consciously added pleasure to your life?

The Wabi Sabi approach to pleasure doesn’t require much effort but rather small, simple actions. Begin by making a list of things that evoke pleasure in each of your senses and then promising yourself to take at least one pleasure break a day.

Here are a few of the ways I take quick, solo pleasure breaks:

I love the fragrance of scented candles as well as the warm, soft dancing of a flame, so I curl up in my favorite chair, light a candle and indulge for a few minutes with a piece for my favorite chili chocolates.

If I have had a particularly stressful day, I take a long, warm bath, soaking in my aromatherapy oils, surrounded by candles and soft music.

Or, if I want to pump up my energy, I put on a high energy, latin grooves CD of some of my favorite tunes, turn up the volume and dance like crazy.

It’s really quite simple…decide that for ten minutes each day for the next week you are going to schedule a pleasure break just for you, even it’s just making a cup of your favorite tea or stopping to literally smell the roses.


What if you made a date with your with your mate for a little Wabi Sabi sex?

Applying Wabi Sabi to your sex life means it’s ok that you’re too tired, too stressed or don’t have time, you just decide to do it anyway….even if nobody really wants too.

According to relationship guru, Alison Armstrong, just because you are not in the mood or feeling estranged or disconnected from your partner, doesn’t mean you can’t make the effort to reconnect and re-ignite the energizing, and life-giving forces of sex.  Like riding a bike, you’ll quickly get back in the groove.

Be creative.  Find a new time, a new place, a new way to initiate a connection.

Even if you feel silly, awkward, or strange, just go for it.

Remember this is Wabi Sabi sex.  It doesn’t have to be perfect.

And, however the lovemaking turns out, whether it’s dull and routine or toe-curling ecstasy, choose to find the beauty and perfection in it.  Know that it’s going to be great because you’ve made the effort to give yourself and your partner some attention, affection and hopefully pleasure.

When we allow ourselves to experience pleasure, we are relaxed and in the flow and it’s a zillion times easier to access our positive emotions. By taking the time to add pleasure to your life you will be calmer, happier, and more receptive to enjoying and receiving love at every level.  You learn to accept the flaws, imperfections, and limitations – as well as the gifts and blessings – that form your shared history as a couple.  Acceptance and its counterpart, understanding, are crucial to achieving relationship harmony.  It’s is sacred love, the highest form of love, and like most things worth striving for in life requires patience, commitment, personal responsibility, and practice.  Imagine how great you will feel when you know your partner loves all of you, all the time? The good, the bad, and everything in between!

To get access to 5 free videos on how to create more pleasure in your sex life, go here.

About Arielle Ford:

Arielle Ford is a highly influential personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of nine books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her latest book is WABI SABI LOVE: The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships. www.wabisabilove.com

Holiday Gift Guide

Looking for a natural gift idea for your family or friends? Below are a list of some items we think would make a great gift for someone who cares about their health:

Danielle & Company

Think spa, think eco-friendly, think luxury.  Wrap yourself in our Deluxe Eco Luxury Spa Gift Set from Danielle and Company.  A beautiful combination of our Organic Candle, Organic Shea Body Wash, and Organic Hand and Body Lotion exclusively paired with eco-friendly bath accessories to include: Loofah Bath Sponge, EcoPumice Smoothing Stone, EcoPouf Bath Sponge and Bamboo Nail Brush.  This gift set allows you to select your scent from our 10 signature scents and will be presented beautifully in our oval tin tub adorned with our sophisticated grosgrain ribbon. The perfect gift for you or someone you know! $50.00. To learn more go here.

Jess’ Bee Natural

Jess’ Bee Natural is a natural business specializing in high quality skin care. Our lip balms and lotions are produced in small batches using some of nature’s purest ingredients known for their moisturizing, healing, and soothing capabilities. Ingredients like rich organic shea butter, all natural beeswax, vitamin E, and the purest essential oils ensure that you are only putting the best on your skin. All of our products are hand poured to ensure every batch is perfect. To learn more go here


The Natural Stomach Solution

Do you or a loved one suffer from some form of digestive health issues such as IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome), IBD (Inflammatory Bowel Disease), crohns, disease, ulcerative colitis, stomach aches or cramps, bloating, colon cancer, acid reflux, diverticulitis, or celiac disease? Well then you are in luck because after 3 painstaking years of suffering from digestive health issues, Sara Thompson has not only cured her IBS and crohns disease, but has put together her entire system from start to finish so that anyone can easily follow it without having to think. Don’t let the medical community fool you into thinking you have to take drugs or get surgery, you can heal your tummy all naturally and live a normal life. To learn more go here.

Savory Raw Dinner Recipes

Have you or a loved one been thinking about eating more raw foods but just lost or confused on how to go about it? Many people think that eating raw food is just about eating salads and fruit and this is not true! Now more than ever their are tasty recipes and methods for eating raw and having yummy food. In Veronica’s book you will get 10 savory recipes. These new recipes have been designed to be as tasty AND as healthy as possible to appeal to your taste buds! They’re the perfect compromise between ultra-low fat and simple recipes that can be repetitive over time, and ultra-gourmet recipes that are too complicated and high in fat. To learn more go here.

MP3 Meditation Club

Have you been wanting to try out meditation but have a hard time sitting there? Meditation is one of the best ways to lower stress and ease anxiety without the use of drugs yet so many people struggle with getting their start. There are MP3 audio programs that produce certain sounds and frequencies that penetrate the subconscious mind and make it much easier for you to learn mediation and they are called binaural beats. These beats calm your mind and allow you to focus on your breath and not get distracted if you were just trying to meditate on your own. With the MP3 meditation club, you can access the benefits of mediation within minutes and start to feel less stress. To learn more go here

Vision Without Glasses

Did you know that there is a natural way to improve your eyesight without wearing glasses or eye contacts? In fact, did you know that glasses and eye contacts can actually damage your eyes even more? Sounds hard to believe right? The truth is that if you have poor eyesight, this is due to a lack of certain nutrients in your body along with some other issues that can be cured naturally. When you wear eyeglasses or contacts, you actually are using a crutch for your eyes which makes them more dependent on those things instead of allowing your body to fix your eyes on their own. With proper nutrition and certain exercises, you can have your eyesight back without having to wear glasses or contacts. To learn more go here.

Ta’i Chi For Life

Give the gift of peace and vitality by helping your loved one learn the ancient art of Tai Chi. For thousands of years the Chinese have been practicing this art to help them alleviate stress, worry, anxiety, etc…Tai Chi is the art of balancing movement and breath so that you can find your center and calm your mind. However many people have a hard time finding classes in their area. With Tai Chi for life, the course and material offers very descriptive and illustrated artwork that make it very easy for the person reading it to follow along. In Less Than 10-Minutes Per Day, T’ai Chi Can 
Help You Get Back In Shape, Sort Out Your Diet And 
Give You A Balanced Exercise Routine Where You Don’t Even Get Out Of Breath! To learn more go here.

The Unexplainable Store

If you are familiar with The Secret and The Law Of Attraction then this is for you! Have you ever wanted to learn astral projection, lucid dreaming, chakra opening, aura viewing, how to manifest your reality, and all other sorts of alternative “fun stuff”? Well now you can with the easy to use products from the Unexplainable Store. With these simple to use audio programs (binaural beats), you can tap into your subconscious mind and learn how to access what so many of us are unaware of. To learn more go here

Recent Study Shows Fiber Can Lower Your Risk Of Dying

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By now most of us know that fiber is a good thing. Here is what it can do:

1. Improves digestion by adding stool bulk allowing your bowel movements to pass quickly and effectively.

2. Some fiber adds prebiotics adding good bacteria to your digestion.

3. It improves blood sugar control (this is important for those with or at-risk of diabetes)

4. Adds bulk to your diet without adding calories making you feel full (great for weight loss)

However, it is also important to know the differences between good fiber (soluble) and not so good (insoluble). If you are the type of person who reads labels, then you always want to check to see if it has soluble or insoluble fiber:

Soluble means the body can easily break it down. A good analogy would be that if you add water to it, it will dissolve (soluble).

Insoluble means it is hard to breakdown and wont dissolve as easily. This type of fiber can get stuck to your intestines.

Recent Study

Studies show that those with the highest intake of fiber have a significantly lower risk of dying of any cause. A recently published study by the National Cancer Institute that included almost 400,000 participants found that for every 10-gram increase in fiber intake, risk of death dropped 12% in men and 15% in women.

So why the sudden decrease? Because our digestion make sup 70% of our health. When our digestion system is so focused on the food it is breaking down, it can’t do other things allowing illness and disease to set it.

So make sure you get good “soluble” fiber in your system to keep things moving!

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Do Not Donate To These Well-Known Charities


As the holidays are upon us, the donation game is big business and many charities are doing everything they can to try and get you to donate to them. And while it is great to support worthwhile charities, some of these organizations are known to pray on those who may not know better.

So many of us assume that because it is a charitable organization, that they must be doing good. In a world where greed does not exist, this would be true. Unfortunately, we still live in a world that comes from a fear-based mentality and feel that they need to manipulate people to get what they want.

We recently came across two organizations and they are the SPCA International and Disabled Veterans National Foundation.



The SPCA International is an organization that says it rescues animals from war torn countries. The Disabled Veterans National Foundation says it helps disabled veterans. Both are lies.

What these organizations have been caught doing is:

1. Pocketing monies that are donated.

2. Sending items as “help” that are useless and invaluable to those who they say they help.

However, we recently came across a report from CNN where they confront the head of the organization in a bold face lie where they found that they raised $27 million dollars and $23 million was funneled to their own private company!

Here is the video from CNN:

Once again please note there is the ASPCA which is NOT associated with this organization. If you want to express your concern to the SPCA International, here is their Facebook page. You will notice they have removed their comment feed but you can still leave comments in their posts. Or you can send them an email using this form.

The Disabled Veterans National Foundation is another scam where they play off of the well-known and truster Disabled American Veterans name knowing that some people will confuse the two. This organization has raised over $55 million for veterans and $0 has supported veterans!

Here is the video from CNN:

If you would like to express your concern please visit their Facebook page here. Or you can email them here info@dvnf.org

This holiday season, if you are going to donate money make sure it is a reputable organization that actually gives the support they say they do. If you are not sure and you live in the USA, you can check Charity Navigator. If you are in Canada, you can check Canada Helps.

Please share this with your friends and family so they know how they can support the right causes.

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The Dangers Of Mixing Herbal Remedies With Prescriptions

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In an ideal world, we would have no need to take prescription drugs. But for some of us, they help us tremendously. So the question is this: Is it safe to mix herbal remedies with over the counter or prescription drugs?

Answer: Yes & No

In a new study by Dr. Hsiang-Wen Lin from the College of Pharmacy, China Medical School, Dr. Wang was the co-author of a new study that explored the risks associated with mixing herbal supplements and prescribed or over the counter drugs.

Many people assume that because the supplements are natural that they do not have to tell their doctor they are taking them. While these supplements are natural and very beneficial, they do alter the chemistry of your body. Our bodies are a fragile eco-system and one must be cautious about what they introduce and mix. Certain substances do not blend well with each other and can wreak havoc.

A recent study performed by the International Journal of Clinical Practice combined 882 herb/dietary supplements and drugs to see what would happen and here were their findings:

  • Patients with cardiovascular or central nervous system conditions who are taking medications are especially at risk for potentially dangerous herb and drug interactions
  • The herbs and dietary supplement ingredients that have the greatest potential for causing negative interactions with drugs are calcium, echinacea, flaxseed, ginkgo, iron, magnesium, St. John’s wort, and yohimbe
  • Drugs that had the greatest number of reported interactions with herbs and dietary supplements were aspirin, digoxin, insulin, ticlopidine, and warfarin
  • Types of problems associated with combining herbs or dietary supplements with medications included abdominal pain, chest pain, headache, and mild to severe heart problems
  • Slightly more than 26 percent of the herb and drug interactions were major
  • More than 42 percent of the drug interactions were caused by the herb or dietary supplement changing how a drug was absorbed, metabolized, and eliminated from the body
  • Herbs and other botanical remedies were more likely to have reported drug interactions than were dietary supplements such as vitamins, minerals, and amino acids.

That being said, not all mixtures are bad. In fact some studies have shown that mixing ginseng while getting chemotherapy can be very beneficial.

Bottom Line

If you are going to be taking any type of drugs while taking herbal or natural supplements, consult your physician so that you know if they are safe to mix.

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Brands Who Supported Our Rights To Know About GMO’s

Yesterday we posted a page that listed all the brands who spent a combined $46 Million dollars to ensure we would not know if foods are genetically modified and you can find it here. Today we want to give respect to those companies who spent money out of their own pocket to support our right to know if foods are GMO.

Although we did not win, we want to thank each one of these companies from the bottom of our heart for their good efforts. These companies spent a combined $9 Million dollars to fight OUR CAUSE. Please take a few minutes out of your day to visit their Facebook page and just say thank you.

Eden Foods – Facebook Page

Clif Bar – Facebook Page

Lundberg – No Facebook Page (info@lundberg.com)

Dr Bronners – Facebook Page

Frey Vineyards – Facebook Page

Nutiva – Facebook Page

Stonyfield Farms – Facebook Page

Organic Valley – Facebook Page

Udi’s Bakery – Facebook Page

Sambazon – Facebook Page

New Chapter – Facebook Page

Pacific Natural Foods – Facebook Page

Earthbound Farms – Facebook Page

Late July – Facebook Page

Applegate – Facebook Page

Frontier Coop – Facebook Page

Amy’s Kitchen – Facebook Page

Aubrey Organics – Facebook Page

Mary’s Gone Crackers – Facebook Page

Traditional Medicinals – Facebook Page

Earth Balance – Facebook Page

Glutino – Facebook Page

Wholesome Sweeteners – Facebook Page

Sun Food – No Facebook (support@sunfood.com)

Please contact these companies and let them know how grateful you are for them spending their own money to fight this good cause.

Here is a list of the brands who spent $46 Million so that you would NOT know if foods are GMO.

Here is an article on how to read current labels to see if foods are GMO or not.

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